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Of those that come to us and start their surrogacy to end up with a baby in 12 months.
2011 success rate 50%
2012 success rate 90%
2013 100% pregnancies so far! What are you waiting for?
The 'Ambassadors of Surrogacy' - Bobby & Nikki's website on surrogacy & IVF in India. Wait don't go! It's laid out in a simple to follow and digestible format with valuable insight and first hand knowledge by and for the "1 in 6" person.
As a veteran of 'only' 5 IVF & 10 Surrogacy attempts - as the scars on my wife would testify. I have trawled through the mine of information out there to present it as simply as possible for those seeking fertility treatment and those that are not. For if nothing is done to inform the public then this website would shortly be renamed to oneinfive.com!
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Us on You Tube! Well sort of. This guy is Bobby. Nikki is the lady on the stairs and the woman with the veil is the surrogate! It's a pre-birth party. Movie is called Chori Chori Chupke Chupke (Sneakily and Quietly, about surrogacy) English subtitle (includes when priest asks for parent's names!)
Dear Bobby and Nikki, Firstly I want to congratulate you on your website, even if it is outrageous :-) D, Middle East
Hello, I am a 42 year old female who is engaged to a man 5 years my junior. We want to have children, but I had to have a hysterectomy two years ago. We are currently living in separate countries. Is it possible to come to India for all of the procedures necessary to have a child? In other words, him donating his sperm and me my eggs to harvest and then implant into a surrogate mother? Do you know much time this would all take? For example, would we have to go to India more than one time and do you have the information for us to do all of this? Also, what exactly happens after the surrogate has been impregnated? The parents to be leave and then return nine months later . . . to watch the deliver and then take their baby? Then there is more paper work to get the child out of India? Thank you very much in advance. Thank you also for your website! Best regards, J
hello to you both what a wonderful couple you are, my name is L. I am 41 my husband,s name is I. he is greek we have been living in crete from 1996,from the start of our married life we have been desparate for a child due to many unsucessful I v f treatments and a misscarrige we still had hope but things went badly due to complications they removed my ovaries due to the op I had a pulmonery embolism thankfully I made it ,this happened 9yrs ago, so you see our only hope is a surrogate with her eggs time is running out as my husband is now 42yrs old ha,ha he will kill me for saying that but seriously we would love more than life itself to have a surrogate from india to help us please can you help our dream come true thank you so much,I look forward to hearing from you, L, Europe
Hi, all This is J and R, we are a married gay couple. We have been wanting a family with our children. Last December we contacted Rotunda center for help. This week we contacted Rotunda again. Basically we need an egg donor, either from Rotunda or seek Donor elsewhere. I just found this blog site today and feel "at home". It's WONDERFUL to see all related topics and helps from people all over. We are totally new to this, and I would like to ask for more information about the egg donor situation. Is she willing to help a gay couple? and how much is the cost please. I will email you with our requirement once we know that she is willing to help us. thank you very much. J&R, North America
For Nikki & Bobby a) Firstly, we would like thank you for preparing a very good website regarding overseas Surrogacy. b) We are a married couple who fit into the 1 in 6 fertility problems. We have tried various treatments including an unsuccessful IVF treatment. We are keen on surrogacy in India. We have family in Madras. So Madras would be our inclination. c) We would just like to get a clarification on 2 aspects. i) What is the legal procedure that needs to be done by us in the UK prior to surrogacy in India? Who do we need to report to and what legal documentation needs to be done? Are you able to recommend a lawyer that deals with these activities? We are thinking of either using a frozen embryo or going for a fresh cycle. ii) The process of applying for citizenship after the baby is born. We did see some aspects of this in the FAQ section where it referred to a MN(11) form. As far as we could understand, the Ist process is an application for parental order and then the next process is the application for British citizenship which takes approx. 3 months after the baby is born. Many thanks for your help in advance. S&J, India
Dear Nikki and Bobby, I accidentally bumped into your website today as I googled 'Indian surrogacy'. I saw Daisy's pictire too....She is gorgeous..! So angel-like! I am so sorry to hear about your multiple failed surrogacy attempts....but hey...but at the end you got an angel in your arms! Bless you three...! R, Europe
Hi We are a married couple, we have 4 frozen embryo's and are looking at going to Rotunda for a surrogate. Can you please tell us how to get a copy of your ebook. I have been reading through your website, can you please tell me why you had to stay for 2 months after the baby was born, is this really necessary, does it take that long to sort out the paperwork. Does you child have a british passport? So much information spinning round in my head. Kindest regards J&D, Europe
Need help understanding. The website Oneinsix had good information but I do not know where to begin. My husband and I cannot have children of our own because I do not have a uterus. However I do have my ovaries. How do I get pointed in the right direction so I can find a way to extract my eggs and his sperm and have a surrogate mother in India help us carry our children? Obviously it is very expensive in the United States to have a surrogate mother so any information you can help me with and understanding the how to's would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, K, North America
Hi Guys, just wanted to say what fantastic and informative website you have created. I have been inspired and now want to go the gestational surrogacy route at Rotunda. Perhaps unusually I am a single male, aged 28 and desperately want a child of my own - and have done for many years. I have emailed Rotunda and had a response with a breackdown of all the costs and procedures. I have also been asked to email a full personal history and post to them reports, sperm analysis etc. I have responded providing them what information I can think they might want and am waiting for a response about exactly what reports to send. I was hoping you could provide me with some guidance about exactly what I should expect over the coming months, what medical reports I need to get done on myself etc. so I can really get things moving.I don't want to wait any longer than I have to!! Thanks and Kindest Regards, T, Europe
Hello: I saw your website from an article in the Guardian. I am 40, obviously of Indian origins. My wife is 36 and Caucasian. We have been married for over 12 years now and don't have kids. We have tried and failed 3 rounds of IVF in North America. I want to identify a surrogate mother and go that route for the next go around. Do you happen to have the contact info for Dr. Nayna Patel who I understand works with surrogates in Anand. Any help you can give me would be appreciated. Thanks, S
Hello Nikki & Bobby, I really enjoyed your website and wish both of you all the best in your trials to become a mother and father. I am North American (sorry, - I know how you feel about that :-) )living in Europe with my European husband. My name is A and my husband is M. We has been together for just over 10 years and are still very much in love. We were lucky enough to have a son 9 years ago but during the 3rd trimester of my pregnancy I became very ill. My illness progressed so quickly and aggresively that 7 months after the birth of my son, I laid in the hospital under an induced coma for about a month and a half. Since then I have had many, many related abdominal surguries... I won't bore you with all the details, suffice to say that I can't get pregnant anymore (and will be 40 in August anyway- which doesn't help) and yet we still long for another child or two. We would like to use our own embryo and a surrogate just for the gestation of the child/children. Any help or recommendations that you could give would be greatly appreciated. Kind Regards, A
Hi, I just read your email and would like to know how to get a surrogate mother from India? I just had my first in vitro and it failed. It was devastating for me and my husband and I don't know if I could do another round. I have four embryos left, but need a surrogate mother. Any advise? S
Hello, we are a European couple searching since two years for a surrogate mother, We found two times a person who wants to be a mother for us but the first one was a swindler. She wanted merely our money. We have noticed it, however, on time and with this it was finished! We were very sad and have begun to look out again. When we spoke with a friend about our heart's desire, she promised us enthusiastically that she would deliver our baby. We have carried out all medical necessary things. When the time of the transfer came, she got fear and cancelled it 2 days before by email. Then she was not accessible several weeks, although we want to make clear to her that we are not angry, only sad, and we can also understand her. Since then we are again in search of belly mummy, however, we do not know any more. Cots and surrogacy UK did not want to help us because we come from Germany. In the meantime, we have examined juridical side and have found a legal way. Apart from the fact we cannot simply afford more than a total of 60,000 €. We have paid already a lot for the medical interventions and the embryo storage. In our search we found your website and now we are hopeful that you can help us to find a belly mummy to bring our baby into life. Please contact us, even if you can not help us! In this reflects we thank beforehand for your trouble! Best regards S&H
Hi--my name is K. I am a 36 year old female and my husband is 44. We have been trying to get pregnant for the last 4 years. We live in North America but due to the high cost of fertility treatment here, 2 years ago we opted to go to Thailand to get our treatment there where it was considerably less expensive. We have had numerous artificial insemination and 1 IVF but all have failed. My doctor seems to think it is because my uterus lining is too thin even with the help of medications. Currently we have 4 frozen embyros at the BNH hospital in Thailand and have been desperately searching for a healthy woman to be our surrogate mother. Our doctor said he can ship the embyros anywhere. Since we have had no luck in finding a surrogate we had nearly given up hope until we read your article about surrogacy in India. It has renewed our hope in finding someone. Do you know of anyone who would be interested? All we are looking for is someone healthy and preferrably under 40 years old. Please contact us if you know of anyone or if we could pay to advertise in the paper, who would we contact to do that? Any info you can provid us would be greatly appreciated. Also what is the procedure to bring the baby back? Much Thanks, K
hello i'm P. i saw you web site about mother surrogate . I want to know exactly the price (all inclued) to got a baby ! i want to be father what i have to do ! and how much for surrogate mother ? thanks
Dear Sir/Madam Thanks for your guidances... 23 years ago when my wife delivered i boy by ceasarian , she got infected so 3 times with in a week her abdomen open !!! since then she could never carry the pregnancy to the end ...in each 4 times of pregnancy our childs dead in side the womb !!! Now i am 53 & wife 42...I have healthy sperm but wife's egg not healthy... we wish to have an egg donation with sutrrogate mother...if that work by your assistance our dreams get to reality after 23 years...we are prepare for the costs.Kindly advice.We are from Middle East with light skin (light wheaty) , so the egg donnor must be white & good looking for safty of futur matters. regrds...M
Dear Sir/ Madam, I want to be a father. My wife has lost her capacity to produce ovum. Hormonic treatment has been carried on to boost up ovolution, but the attempts were failed. Now I want a child of my own. Could you please bring any hope to my life. What to do, please advice me at your earliest. With Thanks. Yours sincerely N (India)
I am a New Zealander living in Europe briefly. My wife and I have been trying to have children for over 10 years now without success. We have undertaken IVF about 7 or 8 times and have tried herbalist and acupuncture. I think we have exhausted all other viable means which has prompted me to inquire about surrogacy. My wife will be 45 this year and I have just turned 50. It would appear that initially my wife was producing eggs but the lining of the uterus was not thick enough to sustain an embryo. Very soon after our first IVF attempts eggs production dropped rapidly. We have since tried donor eggs on three occasions and while the embryo would grow in the incubator they would not survive once implanted into the womb. So, you may not have needed all that information, but we have talked about surrogacy for a while now and would like to learn more about whether you have any suggestions at all please? Also, given all the problems we have had I have contemplated whether I may be prepared to be a sperm donor and help others. At my age this may be academic; am I too old to be a donor? Regards R
Dear Bobby & Nikki, This is S from UK. Im considering to become a single father and i would love it if i can find someone who can carry my child but it ll mean it may include her own egg. Surrogacy is a bit different - what is the right term for this progress or is it more safer doing the whole surrogacy thingy? and where can i go for that? I ll love an Asian child maybe a Kenyan child - whats the chance there? please point me in the right direction.
Hello there i am very new at this but I actually have thought about what I want for over 5 years now. I would like to have a baby of my own…I don’t want to marry. I am a male and I live and work in Africa. Here are my questions: I would like to have a separate donor (for the egg) and a separate surrogate – is this possible? Also is it possible to be able to choose between different donors? Meaning that I have a specific needs. I would like the donor of the egg to be a white person preferably Russian or northern Indian but quite fair. I am mixed race – what are the things that I should consider being a starter?
Hello, I am one of those unfortunates that had about 6 misscarriages with no diagonsis. we are Indian couples living in North America and looking for surrogates and egg donor in India. Pls. let me know if you can help. Thanks N
Hi everybody! We are an European, marriaged couple ( 30 /33 Years old ) on the way to find a surrogate mother. By the birth from our first Baby, the doctors must remove my wifes womb, so it`s unfortunately impossible to become another Baby. Thats very very sad for us and our son, who is wishing him a little brother or sister so much. In Europe aren`t any possibilitys for us, and the US-Prices are much to expensive.... Hopefully we send you now this Mail. My wife is still having own eggs so we need a IVF- Center, which is removing the eggs from my wife, fertilize them with my sperm and transplant in a surrogate`s womb. ( where can we find a surrogate mom???? ) Can you give us any informations, how and where we can start to become our greatest dream comes true????? Hopefully, R
Hello !! Can anyone help us with a big problem? We need a surrogate mother to carry our baby. And we also need recomandetion of a clinic where we can do all the proses. Best regardes to you. T&J
Hi We are a New Zealand couple - who like it seems many other couples have exhausted all avenues to have a baby in our lives. We are currently looking at surrogacy in America, however, as you are probably more than aware the costs are extremely high. I have come across your website and found it very interesting. However before I waste your time, can you answer the following question. Due to my age I will require an egg donor for the surrogacy, we are both of Irish and Scottish background, therefore does the Indian clinic offer egg donor from white women (I read that there is egg sharing - is this egg sharing from white woman ). I would very very much appreciate any information you can offer. Many thanks. K
hi there we are a married couple looking for a ts who fees are 5k or less as we dont have thousands to spare we both have a staedy job and our own home but we live in the uk and finding a surrogate near to us is like finding a miracle, we have been lokking now for three years and still got no where yet thanks m & J
Dear sir/madam hello, I would like to know that it is possible to get baby boy using surrogate mother, and how much it will cost.I am a indian and i lived in Delhi i am 34 year old,i have one doughter from my wife,after four time she got major operation,Fifth time she deliever baby girl that time doctor told me not to go for other baby so i did family planing for my wife.know we are interested to surrogate mother for baby boy , if it is possible pls. advice me accodingly. Thanks. Regards, M
Hi, I have two children by a previous marriage and my current husband and I want to have a child together. I've had a tubal ligation. We have tried IVF with my eggs and IVF with an egg donor who is BTW from India and living here in North America. Unfortunately, neither succeeded. We are from North America and Caucasian but obviously since we used an egg donor from India are very pro having a child with Indian heritage. Other women that I communicated with on the IVF/surrogacy board were surprised I was using a donor with a different race from mine. Our previous egg donor is intelligent, creative and beautiful. I have a neurological pain problem and my health is getting worse. I have to take several medications so we are looking more towards finding a traditional surrogate. We have a good friend who lives in India, she told me about the low cost of the clinics there and the good medical care. But, I was told we couldn't advertise for a surrogate. I am glad to find out this isn't true. Our friend lives near Chennai and I am welcome to stay with her although my husband is concerned the lack of airconditioning will be a problem for me since it is hot all of the time. He has traveled to India before. What was it like when you were there? I know you listed out the expense for using a clinic in India but I'm still not clear on what the estimated cost would be for a traditional surrogate in India. I know in South India that $2500 in considered good money for the women who live in the villages there. Thanks, E
Hi! My name is A and I live in Europe. Together with my husband D (gay couple), have we been searching for a way to have a baby. We have friends who´s having babys lesbians and gay men as well. The last whent to USA and got twins through a surrogate mother. We would have done the same if it was´nt for the cost, it´s to expensive for us. We even got in-touch with an agency and manage to press the price to an reasonable price level. But then my husband started to look up the owners name, we found out that he was trying fool us. He was pressed with charges in the USA for steeling other people´s money, pretending that he could help them get a baby through surrogacy. Felling (bouth of us) like ther wher no hope for us ever getting us a baby, I stumbled over your page!! God bless you both! No we are seeing some light at the end of our tunnel. I do wonder if you know if this is for real or not, we dont want to be foold again? So what is left for us now (we think?) is to save us a sum of money before we can start the process. If you´ll having some ideas about how to make things go faster or other thougths so please let us know! All the best in your quest! A
My partner and I are looking for a surrogate and would love to know more about how to get in contact. We have already had IVF and have some frozen embryos so are well on the way. Hopefully J&G
Hi , bobby what a co incedence , my wifes name is also bobby. We r one of the unlucky couples who r living the life with out any hope of having kids , as i was reading your article gave me a hope which we lost long time back , thts the reason iam contacting you and see how we can get help from you . i hope u understand our pain and agony . we want to have a surrogated mother from india , at the same time we r from middle class family trying to survive in North America . u can be the gods sent messenger to us to give us the happiness and joy which we r lacking all our life till now . god bless you and your family regards S
my wife and i have went through the fertility medicine, over and over...we are looking to adopt, is it cheaper to get a surrogate mother from india than to adopt in the u.s. G
Hello, My husband and I are researching the IVF process in North America. We are very satisfied with the Reproductive Center locally with the exception of cost. We are now looking at undergoing IVF in another country, ideally India or Singapore. Dr. Malpani's Practice in India is the one that interest me most but I'm having difficulty speaking with anyone that has actually conceived through his practice. So, my question is this; Do you know what is the best way for me to receive real live testimonials about Dr. Malpani's practice? His web site is fantastic but that doesn't offer me much reassurance. I would never hire a renovation contractor to renovate my home without checking references nor would I undergo IVF here or anywhere without checking references. I'm a bit reluctant to go through Dr. Malpani for references although I did email an address from his website that is supposed to be one of his patients here in Atlanta that just gave birth 5 months ago thanks to his help. I have yet to get a response from that person. Many thanks for your time and help. Cheers! A
Me and husband is looking for surrogate mother to carry a baby for us.Hoping you could help us.I benn searching in the web for a while now but no one responsed me yet with a reasonable price.My husband have a Indian Blood that why I tried to search for Indian woman and I got your website. Asking for help, Mr. & Mrs A.
Hi My husband and I are interested in finding a surrogacy in India. Can you tell me what is the best way of doing this? thanks H&J
Hello, We are a couple hoping to get a surrogate mother to bear our child. We are able to have a good quality sperm and egg, am sure we will also have a good embryo, but complications limit us from bearing the child for 9 months. Please help us. We need to know your process / procedures. T
Hi, I have two children by a previous marriage and my current husband and I want to have a child together. I've had a tubal ligation. We have tried IVF with my eggs and IVF with an egg donor who is BTW from India and living here in North America. Unfortunately, neither succeeded. We are from the Caucasian but obviously since we used an egg donor from India are very pro having a child with Indian heritage. Other women that I communicated with on the IVF/surrogacy board were surprised I was using a donor with a different race from mine. Our previous egg donor is intelligent, creative and beautiful. I have a neurological pain problem and my health is getting worse. I have to take several medications so we are looking more towards finding a traditional surrogate. We have a good friend who lives in India, she told me about the low cost of the clinics there and the good medical care. But, I was told we couldn't advertise for a surrogate. I am glad to find out this isn't true. Our friend lives near Chennai and I am welcome to stay with her although my husband is concerned the lack of airconditioning will be a problem for me since it is hot all of the time. He has traveled to India before. What was it like when you were there? I know you listed out the expense for using a clinic in India but I'm still not clear on what the estimated cost would be for a traditional surrogate in India. I know in South India that $2500 in considered good money for the women who live in the villages there. Thanks, E
Hi, We have done with the 3rd IVF (we ended it last week). We returned the 2 fresh embryos but we got negative results. We have 6 more frozen embryos. We don't want to have more IVFs (my wife is 32 years old and we don't want to waste more time and to start the surrogacy process only when we will get to the age of 35) and we would like to start it as fast as possible. We are coming to India (Mumbai) for one month and we would like to schedule a meeting with you. We would like to know: 1. Is it possible to enter India our frozen embryos (using the special freezing box)? 2. Can you assist us to find a surrogate mother? 3. How soon can we start the process? 4. How will the whole process cost? 5. At the end of the process, how can we write the baby as our legal child? Please write us any information you can. Thanks and Regards N
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